Pay attention to the process of growth. Through it, one will learn true wisdom that “to live” is a constant relating process. The authentic calling is to come out of a shell of isolation and conclusion. The mind needs to embrace the reality of growing as willing to relate directly yet holding dearly values.
The process of becoming then is to seek neither approval nor to influence from or to. One needs to be mindful in the path of becoming. The mind and the heart need to learn to surrender the thought, and the feeling of “this is this” or “that is that.” The process then helps both the mind and heart do more reflective questions.
By doing all those processes, one will learn more to continue to grow while being alive in the experiences. There will be no reference to worry or fear about being judged or attached then get stuck.
The conclusion is the ultimate act of becoming aware of preparing the self to enter the novel gate of opportunities.