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Zen emphasizes direct experience and insight into the nature of reality, aiming to bring about a profound awakening or enlightenment. It is known for its minimalist and practical approach, focusing on meditation and mindfulness to cultivate wisdom and inner peace. Zen became one of the most influential forms of Buddhism in Japan.

The basic principles of Zen in Japan can be summarized as follows:

1. Zazen (seated meditation): Zazen is the core practice of Zen. Practitioners sit in a cross-legged position, usually on a cushion (zafu), focusing on their breath or a specific koan (a paradoxical question) to quiet the mind and cultivate awareness. The aim is to go beyond conceptual thinking and directly experience reality as it is.
2. Mindfulness: Zen emphasizes being fully present in the current moment without being caught up in thoughts about the past or future. By cultivating mindfulness, practitioners develop a heightened awareness of their thoughts, feelings, and actions, leading to greater clarity and insight.
3. Non-attachment: Zen teaches the importance of letting go of attachments to ideas, desires, and outcomes. By recognizing the impermanence of all things, practitioners seek to cultivate a sense of non-attachment and acceptance, which leads to freedom from suffering.
4. Emphasis on direct experience: Zen encourages practitioners to go beyond intellectual understanding and theories and to seek direct experience of reality. This is achieved through meditation and mindfulness, allowing individuals to see things as they are without the filter of conceptual thinking.
5. Importance of a teacher: In Zen, the guidance of a qualified teacher is highly valued. The teacher, often called a Zen master or Roshi, provides guidance and instruction to students, helping them deepen their understanding and practice. The teacher-student relationship is considered crucial in Zen training.
6. Koan practice: Koans are paradoxical questions or statements designed to challenge the logical mind and provoke insight. The practitioner contemplates a koan, such as “What is the sound of one hand clapping?” or “What was your original face before you were born?” The aim is to transcend ordinary thinking and reach a state of direct realization.
7. Integration of Zen into daily life: Zen emphasizes the integration of meditation and mindfulness into everyday activities. The practice is not limited to sitting on a cushion but extends to everyday life—eating, walking, working, and interacting with others. Zen practitioners cultivate continuous awareness and presence by bringing mindfulness to all aspects of life.
8. Recognition of the inherent Buddha nature: Zen teaches that all beings possess an inherent Buddha nature—the potential for awakening and enlightenment. Through dedicated practice and insight, individuals can realize their true nature and live in harmony with the world.

These principles of Zen reflect its practical and experiential nature. They aim to awaken to the true nature of reality and find peace and liberation in the present moment.

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Find a quiet, comfortable place where you won’t be disturbed for the session. Sit or lie comfortably, and take a few deep breaths to help yourself relax.

Imagine standing on a cliff’s edge overlooking a vast, open expanse. Gazing out at the horizon, you feel a sense of peace and calm.

Now, imagine a figure approaching you from a distance. As the figure gets closer, you realize it’s a version of yourself – the self plagued by mistrust and suspicion.

Allow yourself to acknowledge the presence of this part of yourself and greet him with compassion and understanding. Let him know that you are here to help and willing to listen to his concerns.

Ask the part of yourself plagued by mistrust to describe his fears and concerns. Then, you listen with an open heart and mind, without judgment or criticism.

Now, imagine holding a piece of paper in your hand. On the paper, write down all of the fears and concerns that the part of yourself that is plagued by mistrust has shared with you. Take your time with this, allowing yourself to write down everything that comes to mind.

Imagine crumpling up the paper and throwing it off the cliff when you have finished writing. Then, as the paper tumbles through the air, imagine it being carried away by the wind and disappearing.

Take a deep breath and let go of all the fears and concerns that you have written down. Know that they are no longer a part of you and that you can move forward without them.

Imagine yourself again standing on the cliff’s edge, looking at the vast expanse. Feel a sense of peace and calm as you realize you are free from mistrust.

Repeat the following affirmations to yourself: “I am worthy of trust. I trust myself to make good decisions. I trust others to act in my best interests. As a result, I am free from mistrust and suspicion.”

Take a few deep breaths, and when you’re ready, open your eyes and return to your day feeling calm, confident, and at peace.

Remember that overcoming underlying mistrust takes time and patience. Practice this meditation regularly, and be gentle with yourself as you work through your fears and concerns. With persistence and dedication, you can learn to trust yourself and others fully.

DR. Rony Kusnadi, Ph.D., LCPC
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Practicing childlike spirituality can be a beautiful way to reconnect with a sense of wonder, curiosity, and openness to the world around you. Here are some suggestions for incorporating childlike spirituality into your daily life:

Cultivate a sense of awe: Take a few moments each day to appreciate the world’s wonders. Observe the beauty of nature, marvel at the stars in the night sky, or find something small and fascinating in your immediate surroundings.

Embrace curiosity: Approach each day with a sense of curiosity and a willingness to explore. Ask questions, seek knowledge, and be open to new experiences. Children are naturally curious; you can maintain a childlike sense of wonder by fostering this quality.

Engage in creative activities: Children often express their spirituality through creative endeavors. Engage in drawing, painting, writing, singing, or dancing. Allow yourself to unleash your inner thoughts and emotions through these forms of expression.

Practice mindfulness: Be present now and pay attention to the details of your experiences. Notice the sensations, sights, sounds, and smells around you. Children often experience the world with entire presence, and by practicing mindfulness, you can cultivate a similar state of awareness.

Engage in playfulness: Find opportunities to play and have fun daily. Engage in activities that bring you joy and laughter. For example, play board games, engage in physical activities, or indulge in activities that make you feel light-hearted and carefree.

Nurture your imagination: Allow your imagination to soar freely. Engage in activities stimulating your creativity, such as reading fiction, watching movies, or engaging in imaginative storytelling. Give yourself permission to dream and envision a world beyond the limits of everyday reality.

Practice gratitude: Children often have a natural ability to appreciate the small things in life. Cultivate a sense of appreciation by regularly reflecting on what you are thankful for. Keep a gratitude journal or take a few moments each day to mentally acknowledge and appreciate the blessings in your life.

Childlike spirituality is about embracing a sense of wonder, curiosity, and joy. By incorporating these practices into your daily life, you can nurture a deeper connection with your spirituality and experience the world with a renewed sense of awe and appreciation.

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DR. Rony Kusnadi, Ph.D., LCPC

Mindfulness meditation puts your mind into a ‘rightful place.’ That means you understand that you’re in the right place at the right time—you are always in your perfect moment. You become the crown and scepter of authority over your life through mindfulness meditation. You are the one and only authority in your life. The awareness that comes to you is that you can empower your free will as you enhance your discernment, intuition, and instinct. The enlightened path gives your mind assurance and confidence in making decisions.

DR. Rony Kusnadi Ph.D., LCPC

I release what I cannot control. I am open to the flow of life. Because of that, I am at peace with what is, what was, and what will be. I am connected to everything around me. I breathe in peace; I breathe out tension. I always remember that I am safe. Christ is always with me. I am calm. I am grounded; I am centered. I am strong; I am resilient, as I am letting go. I am present in this moment. Because of Christ, I am worthy of love and joy. I embrace peace and calm within. Peace always begins with me.

DR. Rony Kusnadi Ph.D., LCPC
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I keep mental and emotional equilibrium regardless of challenges, wherever they arise, and from whomever. I am peaceful and serene, and these qualities are deeply ingrained in my overall personality. So, I actively embrace abundance right here and now, choosing to be prosperous and healthy and, with generosity, share these incredible gifts I got from life with my surroundings. This is my active choice, and that is why I can feel peaceful and serene. I am secure in the abundance that surrounds me. Everything I need is within. Peace and serenity abide in my relaxed body, mind, and emotions like a smooth, glassy lake. I am glowing, emanating from my heart and flowing like a golden light through my body and the surroundings.

DR. Rony Kusnadi, Ph.D., LCPC
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I trust myself and the process of life. I rejoice in the truth of my being. So, I let my light shine; it means embracing my freedom with a sense of responsibility to better myself and the world around me. I am wonderful. I rejoice in the truth of my being. I accept it as so and let it be.

The sound of the birds assures me that I am alright. They are rejoicing with me, rejoicing with the creative energy from the universe, which is creating beautiful things surrounding me. I am grateful. I am thankful. I continue to do my best. I trust myself and the process of life and continue believing that I am in the right place and time, especially when I am doing all the calling above.

Let things come naturally and easily for me with a sense of freedom. Again, I rejoice in the truth of my being. I let my light shine to better me and the world around me. I accept it as so and let it be. I trust myself and the process of life; that is how I let go of my anxiety and fear and free myself. I am free and happy and do the best possible; that’s all I need and what I want to share with the world.

DR. Rony Kusnadi Ph.d., LCPC
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Dance, in its essence, is a spiritual response to music. As the music begins to play, we are stirred to move. Dance, then, is our totality interpretation of the music’s sound, which leads to unfolding. If we consider music in the context of the Trinity, we might envision God the Father as The Composer, Jesus, the Lamb of God, the Dancer, and the Holy Spirit, the Loving spirit, as the Rhytms or Melody.

Again, in life, our dance is a personal interpretation of the music of God, which resonates with multiple tones. Therefore, the rhythm of our dance is always a unique expression of our understanding and emotional connection with the divine. So, to dance in the world is to embrace the meaning of daily offerings, let go, lead, and experience God’s presence. Being a great dancer requires openness and flexibility, allowing movements to flow and experiences to shape and manifest at the right times and moments.

The ability to be receptive to the music, even if it’s not our preferred tune, is a “must” for the best ability to respond and envision. Just as Jesus’ every action was to bring life to others on his journey to the crucifixion and resurrection, our dance in the world should also be a source of life and inspiration for others. It is how we give life to others through our being and person; that is how we devote the dance to the world.

We can learn a simple lesson from the liveliness of St. Joseph: In a relationship, it is more important to be loving rather than only to be right.

Reflection from a very special friend 🙂