The mystery of transformation is something different. Transformation happens when something old falls apart, not when something new happens. In this process, you carry your identity with new ways of being, understanding, and doing.
You will be surprised to discover that continuity and discontinuity happen at the same time. The pain invites you to listen at a deeper level, learning to surrender and letting God in. You experience chaos at first. It happened because of the pain of the past — as the old belief system is falling apart.
Certainly, you see the old pattern way of doing or being is no longer working. You learn to unhand the anticipation of pain and the fear of being in pain. You know that apparently, you were deeply entrenched in the past, and now, you are clearly a free person.
You will be ready when you have hope amongst things that “looks insanity” yet liberate and give a sense of freedom.
DR. Rony Kusnadi, Ph.D., LCPC
Notable Life Counseling Services, LLC